Virginia Valentine Wilbert Obituary - Visitation & Funeral Information

Virginia Valentine Wilbert, age 97, formerly of Pittsburg, Kansas, passed away peacefully at home with her family on March 5, 2021 in Fair Haven, New Jersey. She was born on September 2, 1923, in Pittsburg to Madeline and John Valentine. Ginny, as she was known to her family and friends, graduated from Ft. Scott, Kansas High School and received her Associate degree in business from the Ft. Scott Community College in 1943. She was married to Edwin W. Wilbert of Pittsburg on March 21, 1945, who predeceased her on April 12, 1988. Like most people of her generation, Virginia’s life was framed by the Great Depression and World War ll. During the War, while the men of her town went off to war, Virginia volunteered at the local USO with her future sister-in-law, Anna Marie. This spirit of patriotism and volunteerism would follow her throughout a life well-lived. When her young family moved to Wichita, Virginia continued to volunteer at the Wichita USO and with the Air Force Reserve Officers Association. When the family moved to Fair Haven, New Jersey, Virginia volunteered and was active with the Monmouth County Museum, ARC, AAUW, the Church of the Nativity Parish, and the Newcomers’ Alumnae Club, to name a few. Virginia loved socializing and travelling. She was an avid bridge player and a member of several bridge groups, even playing bridge up to the time of her passing. Her love for adventure began on her honey-moon when she and Ed took the train the day after their wedding celebration to Hendricks Army Airfield in Sebring, Florida. She travelled with her daughter Linda to Asia; she and Ed travelled to Greece to visit their daughter Sheryl; they travelled to Europe on several occasions to visit their sons, Randy and Gary, and their daughter Linda; and visited every state of the Lower Forty-Eight. Other favorite things included daily crossword puzzles, mystery novels, and hot air balloons in which she took flight a few times. Virginia enjoyed watching all sports. She was a forever fan of the St. Louis Cardinals and thought Stan Musial was the greatest ball player who ever lived. Ginny would attend a Monmouth Park race once a year keeping tabs on the horses and jockeys throughout the season. She even relished the noise and pageantry of attending the Indianapolis 500. In addition to her loving husband Ed, she was predeceased by her son-in-law, John G. McGill of Eatontown, New Jersey; her parents, Madeline and John Valentine of Pittsburg, Kansas; her sister Norma Dawson of Wichita, Kansas; three sisters-in-law; four brothers-in-law; and two nieces and a nephew. Most of all, Virginia loved time with her family. She was a true matriarch with her happiest times spent with family. She is survived by her beloved brother, John Valentine and his wife Laura of Oxford, Missis-sippi; her daughters, Sheryl McGill of Eatontown, New Jersey; and Linda Parish of Fair Haven, New Jersey; her sons, Randall Wilbert and his wife Jody of Winding River, North Carolina; and Gary Wilbert and his wife Marilyn of Saline, Michigan. She was blessed with thirteen grandchildren whom she would refer to as her “baker’s dozen” along with sixteen great grandchildren. Her grandchildren are: Randall Wilbert, II and his wife Martine with their four children of Montreal, Canada; Jennifer McGill of Bear, Delaware; Kelle Kasky and her husband Matthew with their five children of Springfield, Virginia; Virginia White and her husband Bryan with their three children of Las Vegas, Nevada; Erin Gilliam and her husband John with their four children of Alexandria, Virginia; Vanessa Wilbert of Saline, Michigan; John Wilbert of Richmond, Virginia; Gary Wilbert ll of Troy, Alabama; Michael Wilbert and his wife Caitlin of Richmond, Virginia; Madeleine Parish of New York City; Edwin Wilbert and his wife Teri of Gaithersburg, Maryland; Catherine Parish of Fair Haven, New Jersey; and William Parish IV of Stanford, California. She is survived by several nieces, nephews and cousins. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated on Monday, June 28th at 10:00 A.M. at Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church, Pittsburg. Interment follows at Highland Park Cemetery where she will be laid to rest with her loving husband.

Virginia Valentine Wilbert

September 2, 1923 - March 5, 2021